A poem written for a beautiful girl that passed at only 14 Years of age. Her loss impacted on so many especially her mother and my best friend. She was the daughter I never had and was blessed to be considered her other mother with the affectionate title of Big Mum as two Debs was confusing when we where always together. Everybody deals with grief differently and others should never judge someone that still grieves for lost ones even if they can. This poem was inspired by the loss and hurt that someone told my best friend to get over the loss of her daughter.